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25 Straight Males Inform Their True Tales

First homosexual experiences instructed by straight males


In search of first homosexual experiences tales? In that case, you wouldn’t be alone. In keeping with scientific analysis, one thing like 7-8% of males who determine as heterosexual has had some kind of identical sex-experience.

Whereas many web sites are likely to eroticize such encounters, few provide first hand, true tales of those homosexual experiences. Given curiosity on this subject, we thought it is perhaps useful to share a few of these with readers.

Beneath is a podcast (E17) that options an e-mail from a listener who identifies as straight however just lately discovered himself attracted to a different man at his gymnasium. From The Males’s Self-Assist Podcast.


What follows are 25 first homosexual experiences tales as instructed by males who determine as straight. To collect their narratives, we requested the Man Counseling group to return ahead and share.

First names are used to guard their identities. Our hope is to assist males who’re attempting to return to phrases with their sexuality. Bear in mind, orientation is just not at all times black or white.

You should definitely take our ballot on the finish of this submit.

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Have you ever had a homosexual expertise?


“I used to be 21-years previous and spent many of the summer time working building to make more money for school. On the job, I obtained to know one of many guys [Mike] who was somewhat older than me. Like 25?

One Friday after work, a gaggle of us stopped by an area watering gap to tie a couple of on. On the finish of the night time, Mike invited me again to his place to sit back.

I don’t bear in mind the entire particulars, however we ended up watching a film and firing up some 420. The subsequent factor I knew, we had been happening on one another.

It solely occurred as soon as, and we by no means talked about it once more.”

-Nick/38 Straight Man


“I’ve at all times been drawn to girls and by no means had an expertise with one other man – though I had thought of it. However that modified throughout my time in boot camp after becoming a member of the Marines.

There was a man who was about my age (22) who I used to be surprisingly drawn to. Unsure if it was his construct or what however I simply I simply know that I favored him.

Simply earlier than commencement, we ended up hooking up off-base. Unsure the way to clarify the dynamics. Yeah, we had been ingesting however we weren’t sloshed. What’s bizarre is that we ended up doing it two extra occasions. I’m married now and so is he. We’re nonetheless associates on Fb.”

-Rick/32 Heterosexual Male


“It was a couple of days simply earlier than Thanksgiving and everybody had left campus to go residence for the vacation, apart from me and two different dudes staying within the dorms.

Feeling bored, the three of us determined to hang around in my room and play poker. One of many two dudes was out on campus. He provided to go down on me and the opposite man as a wager. We thought he was joking however came upon later he wasn’t.

Yep – he made good on his wager.

It was the primary time I had ever skilled one thing with one other man. It was additionally my final however I don’t remorse it.”

-Chris/37 Married Straight Man


“I had a buddy in faculty who was homosexual however within the closet. One night time we had been ingesting scotch at his place and he confessed he had been crushing on me for a very long time.

One factor led to a different and we ended up making out. Later, we traded some oral motion. Solely occurred as soon as as a result of it obtained bizarre afterward. Unsure why.”

-Dennis/39 Identifies as straight

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First homosexual experiences tenting


“Once I was 25-years previous, I took my little brothers on a tenting journey to the Northern woods of Wisconsin. We had been making the trek from Chicago for years however after our dad handed away, we determined to maintain the custom going.

Whereas we had been staying at a state campground, one of many park rangers got here by our tenting space to warn us of pending extreme climate. I feel the man was round 30 years previous?

We began speaking and I obtained the sense he was interested by me. I’ve by no means been drawn to different males, however there was simply one thing about him that I favored. Exhausting to clarify. Possibly it was his cologne?

Simply earlier than we left, he stopped by our camp and mentioned he’d be visiting Chicago the following weekend. Once I gave him my quantity, I knew precisely what I used to be doing.

Certain sufficient, when he arrived on the town, he referred to as. I ended up going to his resort and we ended up getting it on. Nothing severe. He went down on me and I tried doing the identical however wasn’t superb at it.

After that occurred, I by no means heard from him once more. Does this imply I’m homosexual? I don’t assume so. I feel labels do extra hurt than good.”

-Ken/34 Says he’s straight


“I’m a constructing safety guard on the East Coast. Two years in the past, one other man who was my age was placed on the night-shift. Whenever you work that shift, it’s very quiet. To go time, we made small discuss and gossiped about individuals within the constructing.

One weekend round 2 or 3 within the morning, we had been tremendous bored and began speaking about our hookup experiences. I don’t know what occurred, however it will need to have gotten us each horned.

We ended swapping head in a utility room. It occurred a couple of extra occasions that summer time – to the purpose the place all one in every of us must do is say ‘utility room’ and the opposite man knew what time it was.

When summer time was over, he obtained transferred to a different constructing. Not going to say I didn’t get pleasure from it and I do know he favored it too.”

-Pedro/32 Married with children

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“Once I was 25-years previous, I used to be sentenced to jail for 5 years on a drug-related cost. In the long run, I solely ended up spending a 12 months in jail.

Throughout that point, I attached a number of occasions with a couple of of the inmates. It occurs greater than individuals assume and never as a result of straight guys are pressured into it.

In my case it was mutual. To me, I used to be merely getting my wants met – identical to the opposite guys doing time. Do labels actually apply if you find yourself doing time?”

-Enrique/38 Straight man


“The summer time after graduating highschool, I took a job at a job at my native grocery retailer within the dairy division. You already know, like stocking milk, cheese, and eggs. The work sucked and didn’t pay all that nice, however I wanted the money for books.

There was one other man (Sam) who labored within the Deli that was round my age that appeared cool. Every now and then, we’d run into one another and speak about sports activities and the way the Packers had been going to make it to Tremendous Bowl.

One weekend I used to be alone within the dairy case, unloading expired milk from behind the casing and ready for the truck to ship the brand new stuff. That’s when Sam got here to make small discuss.

I don’t bear in mind the entire particulars, however I do know in some unspecified time in the future I noticed him popping wooden underneath his work khakis. All I can inform you is that I used to be impressed.

We ended up j-rking collectively within the meat freezer. The entire thing was over in lower than 10-minutes (if that). After that, we did extra stuff however not within the retailer.”

-Trevor/41 Largely hetero

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Homosexual experiences enjoying sports activities


“Once I was in faculty, I performed soccer. Not that I used to be something to speak about as a result of I principally sat on the bench. However there was a first-string dude that I used to be buddies with the place issues used to occur.

It was by no means like we deliberate it or something. Generally he’d go by room [dorm] and say hey. One time, he confirmed as much as shoot the $hit – you realize, like to hang around.

I bear in mind telling him my shoulder was tousled from a nasty play and he provided to therapeutic massage it to calm down the muscle. That’s once I felt his stiffy in opposition to me via his sweats.

After that, the remaining is historical past. We ended up messing round. Over the course of a 12 months, it occurred a couple of occasions. The dude is married now and so am I. To me, it doesn’t imply you’re homosexual should you experiment.”

-Ronnie/39 Residing straight life

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Homosexual encounters occur at gyms


“There was just one time the place I ever obtained it on with one other dude and that occurred at my gymnasium, round 10-years in the past. The reality is, I had at all times needed to know what it was like so not going to lie.

I assume that’s the reason I let this random man do his factor on me. Yeah, it was cool. Unsure I’d do it once more however not less than I can say I had a primary homosexual expertise.”

-Mitch/36 Straight dude


“I used to drive a Checker cab in Chicago again within the early 2000’s, once I was in my 20’s. Everybody knew the cash was good in Boystown so many of the cabbies tried to seize fares on weekends by the bars.

One time, I picked up a experience by a man who needed a carry downtown. On the best way, he pulled out a leather-based pockets and provided me me $300.00 to look at me j-rk. Once I instructed him no, he upped it to $350, I instructed him I used to be down.

Quickest cash I ever made. Don’t remorse it both.”

-Ricky/40-One thing Straight man


“Once I was again in highschool, I dated this lady from my neighborhood. She had a brother who was the identical age as me and we turned associates.

One time whereas we had been hanging out, he shared with me that he was bi. He requested me if I had ever been with one other man and I instructed him the reality – by no means.

Don’t ask me why however we began playing around. I assume there was part of me that was curious. The bizarre factor is the lady and I by no means messed round – not even as soon as.

I don’t think about myself homosexual and even bi. Again then, I feel I used to be simply figuring issues out and he was someone to try this with.”

-Frank/28 Just about straight

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First homosexual expertise was at a resort


“Once I was 19-years previous, I labored at a resort as a bellman. Continuously, male friends had me convey up their baggage.

A minimum of 5 occasions, I ended up staying somewhat further. It was at all times for a giant tip. The very best half was I didn’t must do something besides pull my pants down and allow them to do their factor.

When you find yourself younger and broke, you’ll do something for cash. I’m married now with children and don’t think about myself homosexual.”

-Nick 33 Says he’s hetero


“Again in faculty, there was a man that I used to get with for oral stuff. Someday, he requested me if I’d ever need to do extra. At first, I used to be hesitant as a result of it appeared like that will be drawing a line, you realize?

However he was persistent, and I admit I used to be curious. Lengthy story quick, it occurred. I can’t say I didn’t prefer it as a result of I did. However we solely did it a couple of occasions.”

-Kenny 38 Largely hetero


“It occurred just a few occasions. A neighbor and I used to get collectively and smoke. Quite a lot of what occurred is fuzzy so I don’t bear in mind all the main points. However I do bear in mind we did issues.”

-Brian/39 Fuzzy straight


“I went onto a preferred hookup app to see what I might discover. Unsure the way it occurred however I ended up tapping on a filter that put me in a same-sex class. I ultimately obtained out of it however it was too late, I used to be already listed within the homosexual space.

About an hour into it, a man reached out to me and mentioned he was simply trying to give oral. As a result of I wasn’t having a lot luck in straightsville, I figured why not. There has at all times been part of me who was curious, so I figured WTF not, you realize?

To maintain it actual, I’ve obtained to say that I loved myself. However as soon as I obtained it out of my system, I’ve actually by no means had any need to do it once more. I assume it’s all a part of rising older.”

-Bruce 33/Decidedly straight

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“Once I was a probie [probation) with the Fire Department, there was another guy assigned to our firehouse, going through the ranks with me.

Both of us became pretty tight, which is what you would expect given how F-ing awful they treat you. We used to hang out a lot and I guess we bonded.

I’m not going to go so far as to say we were boyfriends because we weren’t. But when we weren’t at work, we did make out a few times and more. I was bumped when he got transferred a year after making it through probation.”

-Mark/36 Totally hetero


“When I was 19, I used to play ball in our neighborhood league. A lot of the guys did because there wasn’t anything else going on in the suburbs.

There was this one guy I used to get with after practice. It just sort of happened. The weird thing is we never talked about it. From time to time, we would end up in my garage when my parents weren’t home and mess around. We were both curious I guess.”

Bobby/33 Straight male


“When I was 18-years old, my cousin Nick stopped by our family’s house. We were living in Iowa and he was driving from New Jersey to California for a new job.

He ended up staying in my room during his visit. He was a little older than me but not by much (21?). I remember him undressing and noticing how much bigger he was than me.

He must have caught me eyeing him because he laughed about it. Then, on the next night of his stay, he purposely made sure I saw it again. The rest is history. I was curious and strangely attracted to him. Only happened once and it is not something we’ve ever talked about.”

-Doug/Hetro with a secret

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Military training


“I never really did something with another guy but I did use to watch two dudes I served with [in the military] fiddle within the woods.

They at all times thought they had been being non-public, however I’d see them doing issues quite a bit. The truth that I watched tells you one thing.

-Curtis/39 Hetero male


“I’m not likely ashamed that I used to hook up with my neighbor from my teen-years. I wager a number of guys have had homosexual experiences and they’re simply too rooster to speak about it.”

-Kelly/38 Says he straight


“A number of years in the past, I went to a film with a few buddies and midway via the movie, wanted to make use of the boys’s room. That’s once I noticed a man touching himself in a urinal subsequent to me.

It’s exhausting for me to clarify however it actually turned me on, so I joined him. Briefly, we each reached out and touched each other. If it lasted greater than 15 seconds I’d be shocked. That’s the closest I’ve ever come to one thing with one other dude. I feel that qualifies as my first homosexual expertise. Will it ever occur once more?”

-Ryan/35 Clinging to straight


“Throughout my highschool years, I went to a army boarding faculty. The setup was three guys to a dorm. I turned associates with one of many guys I bunked with named Dale.

On some random fall weekend, it was simply me and Dale in our room whereas the opposite roommate went again residence on go away. That’s when me and Dale began speaking about 69 and what that is perhaps like. One factor led to a different and the following factor I knew we had been really doing it – in the course of the ground – of our dorm.

For the rest of the varsity 12 months, we attached A LOT in varied locations. Oddly sufficient, we stayed in contact after commencement and nonetheless discuss to this present day. However we by no means focus on our senior 12 months at school. Is that how bromances work?”

-Nathan/29 Now married with two children

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“I will need to have been all of 21-years previous once I had my first homosexual expertise. There was a neighbor dude I used to carry weights with in his storage. He had a kind of Joe Weider flat benches, which again then was type of a giant deal.

Over the course of time, we obtained nearer and nearer. Someday he reached out and touched me and I didn’t cease him. It didn’t take lengthy earlier than we each began doing issues to at least one one other on that bench. We most likely attached half a dozen occasions.

The entire thing ended once I joined the Military and obtained deployed. He has lengthy since moved some other place together with his household. Enjoyable occasions. However that was years in the past. I’ve by no means executed something like that since.”

-Eric/31 Male Heterosexual


“Once I was 30-years previous, I purchased a 1968 Ford Thunderbird. Muscle vehicles have at all times been my factor, and this was my dream automotive. However this car wanted a number of work, so I used to contract with a mechanic who specialised in older fashions.

The dude was round my age and we used to talk quite a bit about vehicles, sports activities, and the standard stuff that guys do. It’s a part of the explanation we turned quick associates.

One weekend, after performing some work on my automotive, we took it out for a take a look at drive. All I can inform you is that whereas we had been on the street, we pulled off right into a truck cease. That’s once we swapped head within the car parking zone.

I doubt he would determine as homosexual as a result of he was married with somewhat child on the time. I’m fairly positive we had been each simply tremendous curious. Solely occurred as soon as. I nonetheless know the dude.”

-Vincent 37/Straight and dwelling by bro-code


In studying the various first homosexual experiences tales shared on this web page, it is very important keep in mind that in some unspecified time in the future, most males who determine as straight have had some kind of homosexual expertise.  I’m mentioning this as a result of many individuals cling to labels that don’t at all times precisely signify an individual’s fact.

In case you are a straight man studying this piece, you most likely can bear in mind some kind of identical intercourse expertise you had with one other man over the course of your life. The query is – would you ever speak about it? If not, why? Are you afraid that somebody may assume you’re homosexual?

Meals for thought.

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